So... I’ve been with my boyfriend for about four years now. He wants to make a move from California to New Jersey. I live with my family and my son in Nevada.

I don’t want to move across the country away from my whole family without getting married and he knows this.

So... this morning he told me he doesn’t want to get married. He’s in no rush.

So, I’m just curious... if you were me, what would you do?