Started talking to this guy during the summer who told me he’s had relationships but hasn’t had long term ones. He also was never taught the relationship type stuff (I was never taught relationship stuff either but I’ve self taught myself). So I asked him what his love language is, he doesn’t know. He doesn’t fully know what he likes or that another person might like something else. I told him mine and how I also like little texts to catch me up on his day even if it’s gonna be a super busy day just text me in the morning. Nothing. And his response was oh I forgot or I didn’t know that was a thing. I felt myself having to explain how to be in a relationship so I broke it off. It felt like I was in high school again and I’m done with that teach him shit. He called me shallow and is trying to bash me to his mom whom I never met and his friends

Am I wrong for this? Call me high maintenance or whatever, but repeating and begging is not how I roll. Either hear me the first time or don’t, that’s on you. I also need to see action behind those promises too. If you have bad relationships or no one ever taught you how to love, that’s not on me boo. There are books and videos on YouTube, go to inner work University boo. Playing that maybe he’ll change or he’ll change for me game, nah left that game in the supermarket on the shelf, untouched, where it belongs