Hey mamas I need some advice.

My boyfriends soon to be ex wife has to work 3rd shift tomorrow. We are supposed to get their daughter at our normal time, however, she did let us know she will be working 3rd and to drop their daughter off at her "friends" house. We know it is her boyfriend but she wont say it over text due to she made it very clean I, the girlfriend, am not to be around their daughter. We asked his soon to be ex wife if we can just keep her until she gets off. And she blatantly said "No. We will get more visitation hours when the separation agreement will be signed."

We are stuck between trying to co-parent effectively and just take their daughter to he boyfriend's house

Or

We pick their daughter up and after we let her know we are uncomfortable with this man watching his daughter when he can since he wont be working.

What should we do. We get her tomorrow at 2pm and need to decide by then.