So my boyfriend works as a call fireman at a fire station and he is really good friends with a couple of people there. He has a group of friends, two guys and one girl, all three are way older than him because he’s the youngest guy there. They often do like poker or game nights and sometimes I go to them as well so I have no problem. But sometimes he’ll go and have a beer with just the friend that’s a girl. I first I had no problem with him having a friend that’s a girl because she’s 7 years older than him but as our relationship went on I started noticing things that would make me jealous. I talked to him about it and he apologized and said he never meant to make me feel that way that he just thinks of her and then as family. But I am uncomfortable with the fact that he goes and drink beer with just her at her house. She lives with her parents still. Well anyways tonight they had a poker night with all of them and he called me to tell me that he only had a couple beers and would be sobering up soon because the two guy friends would be leaving soon so I just said okay. Two hours later I get a text from him but it’s his friend that’s a girl saying she’s gonna have him crash at her house because he’s in no shape to drive. How would this make you feel? I don’t feel comfortable with the fact that he’s sleeping at another girls house, and that he lied to me about stopping drinking and that. I don’t know what to feel right now is it right for me to feel upset?