My 3yr old is scared to poop in the potty. At least she says she is, but she goes pee just fine. She waits until we put a pull up on at bedtime to poop. We’ve tried everything to get her to try. Stickers, candy, toys, backing off, trying before bed. She isn’t constipated. Pooping doesn’t hurt her. She just does it at bedtime hiding from us. Any ideas? We told her she needs to at least do it in her pull up in the bathroom instead of her bedroom but that didn’t work. Should we just back off again?

We have also told her no iPad if she has an accident. But that doesn’t seem to phase her at all. She just turns it off and says “no shows since I had an accident” and goes to play something else. She’s strong willed and stubborn!