This is the most wild and insane thing that’s ever happened to me. So buckle up.

Just to explain my issues here: this woman is an ex city cop, and current state officer of the court. She can look up my address, phone number, license info and anything else. She’s made it clear “she has guns” and knows how to use them. She’s extremely aggressive and threatening in general.

Long story short, a close family friend got mad about a temporary story I posted on Instagram. Super petty BS! It was semi political but not really, and it was definitely not offensive to anyone anywhere of any class, race, orientation... nothing. Pretty neutral.

Well, she didn’t think it was docile AT ALL and evidently has very strong feelings about it. She messaged my husband, whose family she’s friends with, and just lost her crap on him. He’s such a laid back guy he tried to tone her down but it wasn’t working so he just ignored it. I said nothing.

Then she went on and on and on publicly ranting about us, excluding our names but referencing personal information so everyone who knew us would know she was talking about us. Then very publicly told us we were “the worst kind of people” and said to “go fuck ourselves”.

ONLY because I thought we were friends and she’s extremely close to my family, I texted her and tried to work out why she was so mad. Tried to fix it because she’s so close she actually comes to our family dinners sometimes.

She sent me a full essay completely full of how horrible I am, wrong I am, stupid I am. Paragraphs full of it. I didn’t even finish reading it and just told her I simply wanted to clear things up, that I felt like she was being really disrespectful and I had no intention on arguing with her about anything because there’s no point. BUT that I respect her as a person. I was just completely dumbfounded as to why she was so mad.

Well, she didn’t like that either, because I called her “disrespectful”.

She went on about how psycho I am, how I have no friends, how I’m a complete idiot, calling me bitch, stupid, crazy, insane, a nut case. All I said was “what the fuck?”.

To which she replies “I hope you get kicked in the stomach you fucking sack of shit. Good riddance bitch”.

I AM 6 MONTHS PREGNANT and she knows this. I told her that’s sick to say about someone.

AND over several sentences she told me both my kids are better off dead than growing up to be dumbasses like me. That I didn’t deserve either of them and evidently my unborn daughter should be murdered and myself assaulted. I told her she needed to leave me the fuck alone but she kept messaging me.

I told her I’d be contacting her boss, and report her, if she didn’t stop. Because she works in flipping law enforcement and can use her resources against me!! Then blocked her. I figured she’d stop because in LE you cannot be caught doing this crap so I thought I could get her to leave me alone. Nope, she messaged my husband several times, telling him I’m crazy and he needs to control me, that she’s going to come after me legally and take everything I have if I don’t “keep my mouth shut” about her. Another several paragraphs of it.

He told her the same thing: do not contact us. Any further contact will be taken as harassment. Then blocked her.

SO she then got two more fake profiles, was stalking us with them and then messaged both of us several more times, with us not ever responding. We both blocked her again without a word. This has been happening for several days now and I’ve finally contacted the state so they know she needs help and to make sure she isn’t looking up my information.

I was going to leave it at a complaint against a state officer... but should I contact the police as well since she’s using fake profiles to continue to harass and threaten me and my family? She just won’t stop. I didn’t include it all but I’m genuinely terrified and she seems so unhinged.

Sorry that was so long. I’m just so upset, scared, anxious and am having to take medication to sleep at this point. Just waiting for the next fake account and threatening message. I already feel vulnerable enough being chronically ill, disabled and pregnant I don’t need to worry about someone stalking or hurting me.