My mil and I don’t have the best relationship, she constantly judges everything I do but will never be upfront about it. She will talk behind my back to her son, we already have a 17 month old and it’s been an awful experience every time I see her.

I just had my little girl and I cannot stop overthinking this, I’m literally considering moving to a different state so I don’t have to see her. My mil is so damn overbearing with my son and now she’s being SO over the top since my daughter is the first girl in the family for a very long time.

She hasn’t messaged me at all through the pregnancy or after, she just keeps asking my partner when we’re going home and how’s the baby over and over again. This woman just wants to push me to the side and obsess over my children. I hate this.

We’re going home tomorrow and although we agreed on no visitors due to covid, I know I’m gonna have to see her because she gets what she wants.