Say your husband is not home (working) and you want to send a risqué message... it would be out of nowhere lol! but you have never done this before in your whole dating/marriage and are honestly scared of the response (I don’t do well with feeling rejected/humiliated) what would your message to your husband be?

EDITED TO ADD: he runs his own business he does not work with anyone else he’s alone and there is no getting in trouble when you are your own boss.