When should I start freaking out

Danielle

Hello! My period is supposed to come in one day but I’m creeped out because I hadn’t had any pre-menstrual signs like little spots of blood or anything

I’ve been having non-penetrative sex with my bf, but he sometimes cums on me (not in me, its like close to the vagina but not inside)

I take combo pills though, so idk why I’m so anxious (maybe it’s because I’m just starting my sexual life)