Hey. I’ve been with my man for a good 4.5 years, we got married last month. I’m really into having a baby in the past 2-3 years, and he always talks about wanting to have a family, since day one of our relationship, but he takes his sweet time with this whole thing. That’s a main reason why I chose him, because he showed interest in starting a family soon. But in reality I feel like he keeps postponing it from various reason. I’m 34, and in the past year or so this need of mine has become literally my nightmare. My friends are all having babies, and I really just can’t take it anymore. My suffering is real and I don’t know what to do with it. It makes me RAGE as I feel almost like I’ve been lied to.

Now let me make this clear - we have a great loving friendship and relationship, he is sweet and sensitive and not at all the asshole that you might think he is according to the situation described in this post. I’m just so so frustrated. I trust in god that anything that happens is for the better but this major issue is killing me and making me extremely sad. We had many conversations about this but still, no progress.

Has anyone here experienced similar issues in their relationship? What had happened in the end?