I love my mama to death. She is my best friend. She is the second person I told (cause she was asleep and didn’t answer ☎️ when I found out). From day one she’s been asking me when I’m going to tell people. First I told her that my boyfriends mom didn’t know yet and my bf would tell her when he’s ready. Ok, now the mom knows. My mama asks again. It’s an every day thing. I’ve gotten to the point where I told her that I haven’t even been to my first exam yet and would like to know my d**m self that it’s true before I tell everyone. She says I’m being hateful. She says it’s really going to hurt someone (no one particular) when they find out through the grape vine instead me announcing it. I know my hormones are crazy and I know I have the shortest temper ever. Please let me know how I can handle this with a kind heart.

I want to announce this when I’m ready, when the babies health is good, when my boyfriend is ready. If told her that and she doesn’t understand.