First time anal

A huge step to successful anal is relaxing & communication. If you're tense and nervous its gonna hurt more.& be harder for him to get in. Take lots of deep breaths and relax your behind as much as you can.( sometimes you pushing outwards gently can help him initially get in and can help you relax more)Talk with him about it before, make sure that he knows that he can't rush things or just ram it up there without a second thought-- you may get seriously hurt that way.Get him to go slow, slow and steady wins the race , id recommend not taking the entire thing all in one trust if you're new to it, maybe starting by taking one or two of this fingers gently to get the lube inside and outside, ( there is such a thing as too much lube ) its really important that you get some lube inside you , as the anus doesn't produce lubricants like the vagina does. When I was new I found just taking the tip in and out was good for getting me used to it. He'll also have to be really hard/fully erect or else it won't really work , and it'll be frustrating for you both.Everybody poops; everybody farts; anal can be a mess so id recommend towels , wet face cloths, or hell even wet wipes.Its easier said than done when people say don't be embarrassed,but its true, don't be embarrassed, passing gas after or during is normal, it being a bit messy is normal too. I found anal brought me and my husband closer together due to how vulnerable you can both feel. And lastly; don't feel bad for stopping, there is no shame in saying it hurts too much,or discovering that you hate it. Its important that you don't make yourself indure something that you aren't enjoying, or that is too painful, sex is only fun when both halves are enjoying themselves. Many of my friends have ruined anal for themselves because they pushed themselves too far during it, and they now associate it with bad memories or pain.I hope everything goes well with it! Cheers!

What has helped me, is being on your stomach lying down. Have a pillow under your head and just relax your whole body like you’re going for a nap. It may be a little uncomfortable at first but if you stay relaxed and communicate you can really enjoy it

I would say don’t jump in too quickly. Play with toys alone and with him till your comfortable (not just one night I mean weeks-months) so you know you enjoy it and it will help you not be so nervous. My husband and I took it crazy slow and I’ve never experienced any pain only intense pleasure. Communication is extremely important.

I have tried it caliper times with the hubby inky really enjoyed it once because I was completely relaxed and already fully aroused

I’ve tried anal 3 times and every time was uncomfortable for me I felt the urge to poop really bad. Do anyone know how I can avoid that feeling?

If you’re of age I would recommend having a drink or two get a decent little buzz, it will help keep you from tensing up. Also lots and lots of lube

By yourself a butt plug anal kit. Usually the kit comes with three different sizes from small to large.I Wanted one that vibrated because of vibration actually loosens you up more. Me and my partner got this one but in gray. I usually put in my ass and we do your vagina. He can feel the vibration and it's usually on his favorite speed comes within 10 minutes if not less.