Tips for having sex pain free..?

Question

hey!
i’m 19 years old and I’m practically a virgin. I had sex once but it was barely sex only the tip really went in. I really want to have sex but my body just won’t relax and I get in my own head about it all, even with just fingers it absolutely kills. So I was wondering if anyone had any tips for how I can relax my body and make sex less painful. I have tried lube and it still really hurt￼￼￼.

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Make sure you feel comfortable with the person you want to do it with, and a tip that helped me is that i did it just as my period finished, i had no pain at all. And try to be on top, it gives you the control on how deep he goes in you and when he is fully in you hopefully wont have any issues of hurting after that 🌸 hope this helps

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Your partner may not be providing you with enough foreplay. Foreplay makes you wetter but it also relaxes your muscles to help you prepare for sex. My fiancé and I have been together for 6 years and he’s still finding new ways to help me get ready! It also helps to be super comfortable with your partner. It makes a world of a difference!

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Maybe explore with yourself more first before trying anything intense with a partner.  Also if it persist maybe you should talk to your doctor, there are conditions where it makes it very hard to be sexual where penetration is involved. Like vaginismus.

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For me the first few times where sore and had some blood.. I think it’s because sometimes the 😸 isn’t tearing as easily as others and needs abit more work.. have a talk with your parter to be gentle, and to do whatever works for you.

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Before having sex try to be more comfortable and experienced in your own body.

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Take your time maybe have some music playing take it slow communication is key also try lube use plenty of it to make things run a little more smoothly and it’s not a race it might not happen first try but you’ll get there

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Take ur time :)

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