Before I was pregnant I smoked cigars. Of course I’m aware that I want to give my baby the best chance possible and not do it during pregnancy. But today I was tempted to buy one and told my husband and he said no. But what hurts is he told me that I’d I can’t handle the temptation to get an abortion because he didn’t want a retarded baby. I was hurt to hear him say that because I didn’t do it and I didn’t hogs the temptation from him. I expected him to say don’t do it but give me encouragement and not put me down for being tempted. He asked me to post this to see other pregnant women’s opinion.

#1 are you fighting to stop smoking and do you get tempted?

#2 do you think if you did give in rarely that you would cause your baby to be developmentally disabled?

#3 do you think you’d consider terminating your pregnancy if you were tempted and gave in?

#4 do you think he handled things correctly?