SO feels like I only want him for his sperm.

Liz

He initiated TTC months ago and told me he was ready ASAP. This month was our first month of actively trying. We're both really excited, but I'm borderline obsessed. I kind of told him I was worried we wouldn't get pregnant because we didn't have sex every chance we got during my fertile days.

I understand that I'm putting a lot of pressure on him, and the last thing I want to do is pressure the person I love into sex when they're not feeling it.

I have essentially taken the fun out of TTC for him. He -knows- that I love him for him and that I love having sex with him, but sometimes he feels like I'm just in it for the sperm because of how obsessed I've been with it.

I know lots of couples take the fun out of TTC because of how much pressure they put on themselves, but has anyone else made their SO feel like a sperm dispenser? I hate that I make him feel used and want so badly to fix it. Advice is welcome.