He initiated TTC months ago and told me he was ready ASAP. This month was our first month of actively trying. We're both really excited, but I'm borderline obsessed. I kind of told him I was worried we wouldn't get pregnant because we didn't have sex every chance we got during my fertile days.

I understand that I'm putting a lot of pressure on him, and the last thing I want to do is pressure the person I love into sex when they're not feeling it.

I have essentially taken the fun out of TTC for him. He -knows- that I love him for him and that I love having sex with him, but sometimes he feels like I'm just in it for the sperm because of how obsessed I've been with it.

I know lots of couples take the fun out of TTC because of how much pressure they put on themselves, but has anyone else made their SO feel like a sperm dispenser? I hate that I make him feel used and want so badly to fix it. Advice is welcome.