Like the guys think they can say anything, they look scruffy, too persistent, bad grammar

But when I go to the supermarket I always see lovely men but these type of men not on dating apps

Obviously can’t meet people in real life abytmore but I’m getting worried.

Even the men at work who are lovely and attractive and mature and intelligent are taken alreasy , I think I’m just going to have to settle but I feel unhappy if I don’t like them sexually and turned off easily