I know you’re not supposed to compare your life with someone else’s.. but how do you cope when there is someone with a remarkably similar life as you, yet they seem to be so much more on top of everything, and just overall better at literally everything?

Yes I know that I don’t see all sides of their life, and there’s always the chance that they may have struggles that I don’t know about etc etc .... but what if they don’t? What if they’re just better at everything naturally?

Sometimes I hate that I struggle so much with certain things, only to have it shoved in my face again and again...

how can I get rid of all this inner comparison? I hate it so much..

EDIT TO ADD: this isn’t solely based on social media, this person is well-known through family members, so things I hear/see are IRL also