Am I allowed to say something

So like on my other post I explained about how there’s a schedule in place for my 3 week old, I don’t want overnights and my bd and I finally came to a agreement I mean he’s still taking me to court but for the mean time he’s fine with it but in the mornings at 8am his mom is the one that picks aria up every morning and I know that she’s the one taking care of her during the day till I pick her up at 3pm he’s sleeping, I’m not saying maybe later on he wakes up to help but he’s not the one picking her up or handing her to me when I go pick her up should I have a problem with this? Even on the weekends I know it’s his sis and mom doing most of the work, like the time that I gave him to spend with his daughter is more than enough but I just feel like he wants my daughter around his family too and that’s why he lets them do most of the work cus by 1pm he’s at work why does my daughter have to spend an extra 2 hours over if he’s not there I just don’t get it, maybe I’m being dramatic idk I just don’t understand, even today the grandma came to pick her up 20 min before 8am like she really thinks I’m dumb but that’s the thing I don’t like to start problems I’ll just do the same thing and pick my daughter up 20 min before the time.