So, I’ve been with my guy for going on 3 months now. It was instant attraction, and everything fell into place so quickly but so naturally. We were very up front with what we wanted, our goals, and what we do not put up with. I am very much one to trust my gut and it never failed me. I was married before and I know what I want and how I should be treated. I’ve never once come across a red flag- something that I take very seriously given what I’ve been through. We were serious very quickly but it was very mutual and on the same page.

My roommate and I had to leave our apartment due to our neighbors being absolute crackheads and it was very dangerous. Police every weekend, deals going on and we had to call the police because we could hear this dude beating up his girlfriend. My roommate is pregnant and we obviously didn’t feel safe living there so we terminated the lease with no consequences.

I had already been staying with him weeks before the termination, I just had my things at my apartment. He asked me to move in with him after a month. He asked me to move to his home state with him (which I’d go wherever, I love traveling and experiencing new places)

I guess what I’m asking is, it is so soon and I’m aware. But I truly feel loved and appreciated by this man and I never have to wonder if he loves me.

I have extreme anxiety and I’m struggling with telling my parents out of fear of judgment. How do I go about this?