My boyfriend and I have been together two years, I'm 24 he's 38. We got together while I was pregnant, I was 6 weeks & he takes care of my baby as his own. 6 weeks after my pregnancy, I got pregnant again with his baby because he wanted a baby.

Him and my mom don't like each other at all, she don't think he's good enough for me. They don't get along so we barely come around. He don't like me talking to my mom much we always argue about that because it's my mom. When ever we need help she's always there, when we are short on bills, need grocery or anything.

Last week I went over her house after work me and the kids & she was asking for me to pay her back, over like 4000$. I agreed to it at first because she said I didn't have to pay all of it she just wants some in increments. I went home and me and my boyfriend had a big argument over it. He was telling me she's my mother and shouldn't do that to me and that I shouldn't owe her anything. Then started telling me how his family would never do that. I thought about it, I would never do my child like that neither so why would she expect me to pay her all this money back knowing I have two children and bills.

My mom has been calling me and I haven't answered any of her calls, not because I don't want to pay her back but because I think she's really being spiteful because she don't like my boyfriend. She doesn't like him because he's in and out of jobs because the government is garnishing his check from back child support. Also cause he's separated but haven't gotten his divorce final but he's handling that soon he just don't have the money right now. But she basically judges him because his past which isn't fair so I decided to cut ties with her.

Would your mom ever make you pay her back KNOWING you have children and bills plus i'm getting evicted next week and she knows that.