I can’t find my type on dating apps

Is this a thing? My type just isn’t on a dating app, my exes would never dream of being on a dating app. My type is mature, intelligent type but most men on there seem the opposite more like boys. I’m not a big drinker or Partier my self, I’m quite a chilled out person, no drugs, would like to settle down

I’m also mainly attracted to personality but every guy seems desperate for sex or nudes on ther. What do I do??