I’ve been with my bf for almost 2 years. We’re great together and spend almost everyday together. The sex is good and really don’t have anything overall to complain about. But I just feel unappreciated a lot of the time. I ask to go do something and he constantly shuts it down. Example like there’s a new cute breakfast place downtown, with covid there’s nothing to do so I asked him if he’d like to go cause it’s a super cute place and he thinks it’s stupid to spend $15 on a waffle and refuses to go with me. He’s never once has taken me out on a proper date. I pay for a lot of the stuff even though he has lots of his own money but just never seems to spoil me. Not that I expect him to pay but like i pay 99% of the time for stuff and I always will surprise him with small stuff like getting his favourite drink and snack before going to his house. He’s just never done the same for me. And when I start to feel like this, my mood switches when I see him, I get irritated fast and when he kisses me I get annoyed. I don’t like feeling like this and I know these feelings will pass (also on my period so very hormonal) I overall just want to know if I’m over reacting and just thinking about every single detail or if I’m actually being valid. I don’t wanna loose him but I also want to feel special and have those butterflys again.