Advice!

Moms if you’re dealing with your child’s dad family and you’ve tried your best to be as cordial as possible but now he’s incarcerated for the 3rd time and his mom is an alcoholic and very disrespectful. As carrying our babies and protecting them from everything we can, do you feel it’s necessary to not even involve them in that behavior. Am I wrong for not wanting my child to be around that craziness?