Post IVf Retrieval: Day 3=strong but by day 5=gone

So At the beginning of Day 3 my doc said all my 6 embryos were developing very well.

Then this morning, he called and said they all are growing very slowly.

He said he’d call tmrw with an update, but basicallyI feel like it’s over.

What do you guys think, anyone had this happen to them? Feeling sad and a bit lost.

**** UPDATE ****

So, over the course of the night on day 5 to day 6, three embryos began growing again. We sent all three to PGT testing.

Two came back: the 6ba and the 5ab. My doctor said a 4 is better than a 6, but, really the most important thing is the first letter. I totally did not understand that at the time.

So, now, at 42, I’m like: should I do another round or just go for it.

Please don’t judge my age. I’m old because it took a lot of work to finally get here. 👵 ❤️🙏 🌈