Finding a doctor

Help

I moved 800 miles from home and I'm trying to find a doctor. I know how to find the ones that accept my insurance and how to get a new patient appointment, but I'm having trouble researching them and finding reviews. I could just go to the same doctor as my boyfriend cause at least then I know he's a good doctor and a nice guy, but that's the thing, he's a guy and I would just feel more comfortable with a women. I'm just tryna find a GP for now, but it's so difficult and it's stressing me tf out.

Is 11 year of practice good? I see doctors with 25+ years of practice, but I don't want an old man/woman to be my doctor. I'm picky because I have bad anxiety. My last dr was great and I went to her for 7 years