So I met up with a guy and things went well. We both said we had a good time and wanted to see each other. We met up again and things got a little heated this time, nothing I didn’t want to happen so all was good there. Again, we both wanted to see each other for a third time.

I reckoned it was important I found out if he was only interested in hooking up or if he was open to something actually happening. This seemed to fry his head a little bit, eventually the response was that he wasn’t sure about what he wanted and wasn’t sure he was ready for a relationship.

Did I freak him out and scare him off by asking what he was looking for too soon? Or have I saved myself from wasting time with someone?