My man of 6 years lied to me... he has an 8 year old daughter. All he's ever told me was that she lives in the South and he hasn't heard from her mom. He said her mom was the great love of his life but he didn't do right by her. Something has always been off about his relationship with her but he doesn't like talking about it.

He is not perfect he can be super insecure sometimes it is so annoying but he gets over it quickly.

We haven't gotten our tax return after it says accepted and sent. We used his tax preparer so he asked me to look over the paperwork on his email, everything looked fine but at first I clicked the wrong folder. I went to his "mom" folder and found old messages from his baby mama dating back to 2016. Curiosity killed me but he's been very inconsistent as a father always offered to pick her up then never showed. The last message from the mom was requesting him to stay away since he couldn't be a consistent father.

What bothered me was the messages in 2015... he offered to be a father if the mom took him off child support she refused, said he didn't help in the beginning that's why he pays now.

He says he can't find his baby mom he has social media but he hasn't been on it in two years. I looked her up on white pages, found out she got married in 2018 and boom found her husband's FB, she doesn't use her last name on her social media but yep I found her and my goodness his daughter looks like him but prettier with ponytails.

I'm having a kid with this lying ass man... should I call him out on his shit? Add the baby mom on FB? WWYD?

PS he was behind $4k in child support that's what's causing the delay in our refund.