18 weeks and still have not told my parents..

I am 29. We are married own our own home and have 2 other children . And I am terrified of telling my mother. She has never been happy or congratulated me on any accomplishments. Believe it or not we are close and talk daily about random things, but nothing really serious..

I am either going to send her a picture of the ultrasound and say “ surprise.. I know your probably going to be mad though”

Or just tell he over the phone and say “just thought I would let you know..”

I do not want to tell her in person because I don’t want the drama ..

What way do you think I should tell her ? Ugh