Frustrating visit from a friend

My friend came over with her 4 year old and we felt it was safe enough for her to finally meet the baby. Her child literally got into EVERYTHING in my house 😭 I’m a very clean and organized person and have a rule of no shoes in the baby’s room. I have a lot of cats so they have their own room with a cat door on the bottom so we don’t have to smell or see the litter boxes. This kid gets into the cat room goes in my baby’s room with his shoes on jumps on my sofa with shoes on nearly knocked down my sons teepee pulled every single toy out and even got into my bedroom and my sons closet. Opening my fridge and freezer ugh I was soooo glad when they left, my friend did not even discipline him! I don’t blame the kid he’s only 4 and has to to learn manners from somewhere so I know it’s not his fault. I just kept suggesting we go to the park even though it was cold because I couldn’t have him in my house any longer. And when she was finally leaving she said they need to come over again soon. I never want them over again! I don’t know what to do if she asks to come again because I don’t feel

Comfortable saying anything about it to her. It was just a super stressful day for me