In laws always going against me

I think this is just a rant??? I dunno tbh.

I ring my in laws everyday because we’ve moved a bit away from them, that was around 2018, whenever I tell my daughter off while on a call with them they instantly think it’s okay to tell her she’s not naughty or she’s being good or “just a kid” I’ve mentioned this to my partner and he didn’t really care tbh, it’s gottten to the point where my 2 year old isn’t listening to me or is giving loads of attitude ( yes she’s 2 but her speech is advanced more than others) they just find it funny or say I’m being over dramatic

I feel like I’m just losing every battle, even with my partner he’s giving me attitude as well and I’m doing everything. I just feel like giving up