My hubby is NEVER the one to initiate sex

I need to vent because I’m just so pissed off and upset! I could do everything like doing my makeup and wearing sexy lingerie and my husband STILL doesn’t initiate sex instead just goes to sleep! I’m a woman who has needs! This is something I have already talked to him about since we were only dating. He told me it was because it is hard to be alone and not get caught up which made sense but still 🙄 he swore once we got married things would change when in reality it lessened even more! It’s so frustrating because I want to have sex but i guess he doesn’t! It’s hard for me to believe that he doesn’t want to just because he was really into it when we were dating. Now I’m the one initiating all the freaking time and it’s annoying! Like when I say it’s all the time ladies!!!

And 8/10 times I’m not successful in getting what I want. Like shit!!!! I have been verbal with what I want from him and he says he feels band and that’s it! Like?!!!!!

I literally tell him to do something about it! I don’t know what else to do! Masturbating isn’t the same. I want sex! What the hell else is a husband for 😭😭😭😂 help!!!!!