frustrated with my boyfriend
so i’m not really sure how to start this. but lately i’ve been easily irritated by my boyfriend, like no matter what he does i just get so annoyed at him (ofc i try not to project bc i know he hasn’t done anything wrong). and it has a lot to do with our sex life. before he would try to make me cum or at least go more than one quick round. but now it’s like after one round he’s beat and most of the time he doesn’t even want to do it. which is honestly fine by me i’ve been in those phases before i know how it is but he teases me sometimes. like he’ll initiate it or like do things that turn me on and then right after he just starts acting cutesy and innocent like. or sometimes he’ll initiate it and then he’ll go like 5 minutes and thats it. and it bothers the shit out of me because we’re always together so i don’t even have the time to masturbate or anything. i know sex isn’t the biggest part of a relationship but like i have needs lol. and like now all he does is complain about how he’s too drain for sex (we’re both 21 and healthy) but he won’t have a second thought on getting drunk with our friends so its like ???? GETTING DRUNK IS 10X MORE DRAINING THAN SEX LOL +i saw that he has multiple porn tabs on his phone so he’s obviously horny... i don’t know i just feel like maybe he’s not attracted to me. and it’s just so frustrating seeing him act like nothing happens after we fuck when he obviously knows that i wanted to cum and i didn’t get to. and then he just acts all sweet and cute like how we were when we were going thru our honeymoon phase and it’s like i appreciate that but now it just annoys me when my needs aren’t being met. i’ve talked to him already and i did see a change in our sex but it’s still not enough to satisfy me and he knows that. +i know he can last longer and go longer bc he’s done it for me+ done it for other girls so i just don’t know why he can’t do it now. i’m scared that if this keeps happening i’m gonna fall out of love with him and i dont want to because he means so much to me and i don’t want something small like this to ruin it.
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