I have had two losses now. And on the 28th Feb we lost our perfect little girl at 30+4. I am really struggling with her loss and feel like I have completely lost my purpose to live. I am in no way trying to replace her as on the other hand I fear a future baby couldn't be as perfect as she was. But me and my other half have been trying most of our relationship to have a baby and still want one terribly as we have so so much love to give.

Did anyone not wait to try again? Obviously I know it isn't sensible. But equally they give you a generic time frame and everyone heals at different rates.