🌙Background: I’m 22 yrs old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I just recently switched from the pill (it was making my sex drive almost obsolete) and now I have the copper IUD.

🎇I know it’s not super uncommon but I have never vaginally orgasmed! It’s easy for me to have clitoral orgasms - given by myself or my partner - but that’s about it. I have managed to orgasm once during sex but that was a clitoral orgasm during penetration as well. I’ve never felt a true vaginal orgasm. :(

⚡️The sex itself is typically great and I always feel like I get so close but eventually just hit a wall. Sometimes it feels like I could get there but I spend so much time being so close that my partner ends up cumming before me.

😩I feel like I’ve been given every asset to orgasm but can’t manage to grasp it. My boyfriend even has a downward curved penis which makes doggie out of this world with the g spot but still nothing!! Even if I rub my clit during sex it feels good but nothing happens. Honestly, during sex manual stimulation feels so much better coming from him than it does if I’m doing it myself - maybe because of the angle idk. I’ve asked him to do it in the past and he’ll do it here and there without me asking but only for short periods of time because he’s complained that it’s difficult doing all x, y, z.

😒My first true sexual experiences were with an ex-boyfriend when I was 18 but he was very sexually abusive. I have worked through a lot of the trauma and I feel very very safe with my current partner. I’m afraid that maybe my body refuses to orgasm because of my history.

🍆I’ve worked with some vaginal training using toys by myself but I still absolutely need clitoral stimulation otherwise I can’t get there.

I’m lost as to what I should try. Please any tips are helpful!!💕💕