So I’m in a relationship and my boyfriend is literally the sweetest kindest boyfriend ever. He’s with me when we’re not in classes, he brings me flowers like once a month, and he always expresses his emotions about how he feels about me. We’re coming up on our 6 month anni even though we’ve known each other for the past 3 years.

Okay so when we first started dating I was about to breakup with him over pictures of some girl in his phone because I thought he was cheating or whatever. Basically he just said he had an old photo of girls from porn or whatever sites that he saved. Now fast forward and my laptop is in the shop and I have to use his and I see dozens of saved photos of naked or half naked girls on his laptop when I’m looking for this old textbook.

I think it’s funny that I found them because my gut tells me to not trust him but I clearly have trust issues already and since that night in October I’ve been trying to be able to trust him and we literally know everything about each other at this point. I just hates that he saves these pics and the time stamp on some of them are like minutes after I leave for class. I just fell like this isn’t insecure because I know he likes girls photos on stuff and so do I like if I see a fine man whatever but the fact that he saves all these photos and naked pictures especially when I almost broke up with him before over it because I didn’t know the context back then really pisses me off. Like he may not see it but it feels disrespectful and I just don’t even want to talk to him about it because of the unnecessary drama. I just want a man to not have to be told oh I don’t like this can you stop it’s hurting my feelings.

Any advice from someone in a similar situation or experience?