Sex drive increase

Is there anything I can do or take to increase my sex drive? Im on the patch currently(1 month in) but my sex drive has been very very low for about a year now so I’m hoping there’s something I can do that won’t affect my birth control. I have 3 kids aged 4 1/3, about to be 3 and a 1 year old so I’m tired which might be part of the reason I’m never in the mood but I still want to have that intimacy with my husband