Okay so this is really quite an odd one with a lot of detail so I’m going to leave a lot out but I lost my first baby (first pregnancy too) in January, it was super traumatic obviously and a horrible thing to go through for anyone. As we had told my fiancé’s daughter (she is 5) this had got back to her Mum, who is now ‘trying really hard to have a baby because Daddy and Molly can’t’ - how do I even approach a response because 1) I’m heartbroken still and am still trying to process the information of losing my baby 2) how can a mother be so cruel to someone losing a child? 3) do I say something? Does my partner say something to her? Or do we ignore it? For now we’re just ignoring because I’m quite upset by everything and I may be just overreacting and being over emotional but it just seems so wrong - like we lost our baby, is that not traumatising enough?

We are hoping to try again for a baby in the coming months, but right now I physically just can’t bring myself to - it’s only been 2 months! But like how do I even approach this situation?