How do you ‘stop trying’

Charlotte

Ladies,

We’ve been trying unsuccessfully for almost a year. Everyone always says when you stop trying that’s when it will happen. But how on earth do you stop trying.

I keep my self busy with work, I work out a few times a week, do some gardening etc but still always think about how much I want a baby.

Any suggestions on how to keep myself distracted by other things and motivated will be greatly appreciated.