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I’ve only been married for 3 months but I e been with him for 3 years. I am a very honest person and I’m super nice. So initially, everything was fine. He had a car and a license and I didn’t. So it made more sense for him to come hangout at my house. We lived about 25 mins away from each other. After about 8 months of dating I started to receive aggression and negative comments from his family. Things like “you know I don’t like that bitch” “she’s just a whore” “she’s a spoiled brat” he never defended me either because that’s “how his family always acts” the more we started dating the worse it got. His younger sister would call him to complain about me. Calling me a “liar” and “spoiled” and a plethora of other things. He stayed at my house all night and day so they got increasingly more upset because “I was manipulating him and I was abusive”. It obviously kept getting worse over the years and the things they started to say were absolutely awful (I’d rather not repeat.) We still got engaged because we had a great relationship other than his family. It was during COVID so it was super small. I had four bridesmaids and he had four groomsmen. My brother has always been super nice to my husband so my husband made him into a groomsmen. My husbands sister was not chose to be in the wedding. For obvious reasons. Before the wedding his sister said she wanted to get hit by a bus. She ran around the house screaming about me “f her”, “f-Ing bitch”, and said she’d do a “drive by” at my house. I don’t care that she is his sister if she wanted to be in the wedding she should have treated me like a person rather than a dog. She refuses to talk to my husband but gets upset when he doesn’t go visit her at his old house. His parents apologized and my husband gets mad when bring it up and that I haven’t forgiven them. Just because they apologized doesn’t mean they didn’t say the things they did to me. I honestly have no idea what to do. Please help