How do you keep sex fun while TTC?

La

We’re almost 3 years in to TTC. We used to have sex A LOT. But the last 6 months or so I’ve been really struggling to get excited to have sex when it’s not my fertile week. I know “just relax.” “Have fun” “it’ll happen”. But what are some other actual tips to get me out of this rut? My husband tries! He goes down on me, he gives me massages, he gives me wine (haha). But I just can’t get out of my own head.