🙃Meeting someone in person for the 1st time 😶🤔🤭😳

Ive been friends with the person for going on 7 years. She lives 24hour drive away from me. We met via Instagram in 2014. We've texted and like randomly sent stuff occasionally like xmas gift or Christmas cards etc. She's always been there to talk to when i was going thru rough situations. WELL she wants to book a flight for the weekend for my baby shower & meet in person for the 1st time, do stuff the falling 2 days after my shower. But now im kinda nervous about it. I mean We've always texted but idk about her coming to my house and stuff. How how my family will react a total stranger from the other side of the world showing uo at my shower. Im not saying she's crazy but so much is going on in the world i just dont know about it anymore. Maybe i just watch too much Lifetime Movies? 😂

What would you do?