No one gets it

Amy Niki • 👼 🌈 👧👶👶 Toddler & twin mom 💗💙💙 YOU are worthy of happiness

Hey y’all I’m new to the group! Technically not yet in the ‘secondary infertility’ category yet as it hasn’t been a full year. But this will be our 7th month trying, and it’s hard to find someone to relate to!

Me and my husband conceived twice together, the first time not trying (ended in mmc 12 weeks) and the first cycle following that conceived my 16 month old. I was totally naive in thinking that we’d get pregnant again that first cycle.. now I’m just hoping that we’ll be able to get pregnant again at all.

My cycles have been irregular since weaning from breastfeeding and going off birth control months ago. 25-35 days, ovulating late around CD 20 and a short luteal phase 9-11 days. I took proov tests (that test for progesterone post O) last month and they were all negative. Talked my GP into doing some bloodwork, so waiting for that later this month. I’ve tried all the things, also tried not trying and tracking too. Uggghh.

I don’t want to be insensitive to anyone here who has been trying and struggling for much longer. But everyone I know either got pregnant with their second child so easily or is struggling to get pregnant the first time. I feel guilty that I should be happy for what I have, but my heart is yearning for our next baby.

Anyone else in the same boat?

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B.

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Im in the same boat. I have 4 beautiful babies. Yet I'm wanting another to love. Hubby agreed on another one. And it's been 8 months and 5 cycles for me. My last baby was born 3 months eairly. Not sure if that is making my cycles funny but I've always had irregular af. And this is my first time ttc. All my kids are 2 years apart (give or take a month or two. )And my son just turned one a few months ago.Now I'm tracking Im starting to think I have pcos tho. I just keep praying and hopefully I get a bfp soon . Good luck girly. It's tough. Hang in there.

Pi

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I'm kind of in the same boat and I know how you feel... I have 2 beautiful boys conceived rather easily and now we've been struggling for 1 year ttc #3 ... 2miscarriages on the way... Yes I get it we should be happy for our children but it doesn't ease the sadness of not being able to have another one...