My husband throws a temper tantrum anytime i seem to ask anything of him. To me he doesn’t have any responsibility as a husband or a father. He goes to work and comes home and gets fed by his mom who lives in the same house on the first floor. He literally eats, hang out down there til he’s ready to sleep. I am left with the baby so this evening it’s 1130 at night he’s still downstairs I called him to see if he was alive he said he’s watching tv. I lost it at that point and said he needed to help out with the baby get upstairs you have responsibilities I shouldn’t have to come looking for a grown man. He comes up calling me a cunt, attempts to spit AT me because I made you get up from your mothers couch to assume some responsibility?? Disgusting is the only word I have to him. Everyone gets up to work on a daily basis but to him that’s all he needs to do. I get home from a 15 hour day my job doesn’t end there!