Am quite private or shy to answer a sex question with my identity.

No we dont use cartoons and snacks for a quickie. Child would notice we are gone within 5 minutes and that is too short for foreplay. The trick to come from diaper changing and chasing a toddler to 100% sex mood in a minute has not been discovered at our place.

We use the time during his nap, immediately after bedtime, or before child wakes. We do clean up, dress up and prepare whike baby is still awake so that no time is wasted once child is sleeping because we dont know how long each nap will be.

Needless say, sometimes we have heard a cry during our love making...mood killer...

We dont do it in the bed anymore since we cosleep.