I’m 22 years old and been having sex since I was 17 years old. Never ever have I had an orgasm not even one by myself! I can’t even find my clit I’ve tried looking with a handheld mirror, feeling for myself and nothing! At first I thought it was because the men I’ve been with never put an effort to make sure I enjoy sex except one and even he tried, but wasn’t successful. Idk if it’s because I’m plus size or just don’t have any feeling in that area. I’m feeling hopeless at this point. Everyone says “use a mirror” IVE TRIED!!! Is there anything I could do? I hear my friends talk about orgasm and how amazing they are and it makes me so jealous.