Hi ladies,

My partner is 34, I’m 26.

For the last couple of months he is having trouble keeping it up and going soft while ya know doing the deed. He is saying it’s got nothing to do with me and he is not sure what is going on.

I buy sexy outfits not interested.

I offer to do things that I know he enjoys still not interested.

I know though he watches porn and gets himself off at work (he doesn’t know that I know )

I don’t know how to talk to him anymore.

We use to go on date night like once a fornight and haven’t for a good 2 years, he use to plan stuff, now doesn’t anymore.

Have been dating for 4 years

Could anyone help with ideas on what is going on and how I can fix this ?