When he “doesn’t have the energy” for it...

Question

Let me say that we have sex every time we’re together, but it’s rarely good for me... Yesterday I mentioned that I wanted it harder and rougher in the future, and he said that sounds good but he “doesn’t have the energy for it.” Which sucks for me. I’ve been very honest about wanting to be dominated in order for me to enjoy it. Just not sure where to go from here or what to even say

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What does that even mean? He doesn’t have energy to go hard physically? Or does he mean he doesn’t know how to have the energy to fulfill the role? I’m guessing it’s the first one. I would just mention it more and ask him if he’s been taking care of himself as in having a good diet, sleep, and exercise? Maybe that’ll help his energy levels.

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He might need more exercise. My boyfriend isn't able to fuck me as hard if he's out of shape. 😅 Gets too tired and don't last as long compared to when he works out sadly.

When he “doesn’t have the energy” for it...

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