Toys in the bedroom????

So my boyfriend and I have been together 2 years now and we have a great relationship. The sex is usually so good but lately idk like I’m not really feeling it- is this normal? Like I still love him and obviously want to be with him but something is off. When he wants it I’m not really in the mood and when I want it he’s always “too tired”. Yes I understand he’s tired and I’m tired too we both work a lot and put in a bunch of overtime but damn is it wrong that a girl just wants a little passion in her relationship again 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ so I was thinking of maybe getting a toy? I don’t know how he’s going to feel about that though... I don’t want to upset him - you know make him feel like he’s not enough but at the same time I been hella stressed with work and our recent miscarriage that like I just want to relax and need a release. I don’t know any advice is helpful. Thanks in advance ❤️