Is it okay if my bf watches girls twerk and try to hide it?

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We had an argument about it and he always has to make it my fault when we argue or try’s to say I make him always feel bad, which I don’t and if I call his out on something it’s either he has a problem or he try’s and put it on me and make me feel like a crap person. I just wanna know if I don’t like it because I’m uncomfortable with it should I just let him?

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i don’t think he should be actively trying to hide it from you especially if it makes you feel bad and arguments have come of it.

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If he’s actively hiding it from you then he knows it’s something you don’t like. He knows it’s not okay with you but chooses to do it anyway

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Him trying to always make it your fault and all that sounds like he’s gaslighting you. It’s a major red flag

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i feel like thats cheating. i wouldn’t be ok with it.
just leave, unless you like that kind of stuff.

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Why don’t y’all sit down and have a talk and after is there’s no improvement focus on you and give yourself what you deserve cause baby girl no woman should feel like cramp.
We are all queens and that’s a fact.
If he’s not adding up and you know deep down in side you can do so much better or at least try “ MOVE ONTO BETTER STUFF”.

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dude if he isn’t listening and trying to make you feel better if you’re uncomfortable and he’s invalidating the way you feel that’s not okay, chances are he’s getting defensive because he knows it’s wrong and trying to pin you as the bad guy. The least he should do is listen and comfort you if not just stop doing what’s making you uncomfy. Just what i think, he should never invalidate how you feel thats just terrible. Anyways hope it gets better and good luck sis! Also sorry hope my advice isn’t overkill i just think the little things can say a lot about a person, especially flipping things around and blaming you when you’re uncomfortable can be a red flag. Be safe love youuu

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You deserve better why should you let a boy put you down like that, making every situation your problem and you having to be the one to feel like shit and him be so proud and pretend like if nothing ever even happened? Your a queen and dont let him take your crown!

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Hey girl I go through the same stuff and he accuses me of cheating and all kinds of other shit.

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okay. he is wrong. he shouldn't be looking anywhere at any girl, especially that area. he's wrong love, your not going crazy.

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i meant to click no i’m not sure how yes lit up, but yeah he shouldn’t be hiding that from you...

Is it okay if my bf watches girls twerk and try to hide it?

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