Would this upset you

I’m not sure I’m over reacting but I’m so upset. My bf has 2 female cousins who he is somewhat close too. One is married and the other is in a relationship.

Everytime we have an argument he tells them and asks for advice. I’m upset he cannot communicate with me but tells his family

Our issues!

The first time it happened. We broke up. He asked his cousins for opinions on getting back together. They told him he should try to win me back if he really loved me. This happened a year ago. We got back together and he told

Me his cousins convinced him. He said he made the best decision ever.

Second time, we argued over some finances. He runs to them. Tells them his version. He told them to block me wtf? They didn’t though.

He came begging.

Third time, just happened right now. We argued and he told me “I’m going to call my cousins and get their opinion” like wtf?????

He told me right now “ they said I should just break up with you. Our relationship isn’t healthy” wtf??? He lets them decide for us?